
It started as an idea. Well, a Tweet, really. What if I just stopped responding to email?
Sure, at first it was said in half-jest after a few drinks. It was me channeling my inner Peter Gibbons — “I’m just gonna stop going” — while I’m sitting here in Washington D.C. completely buried in email after not getting to it all day. But the motivation behind the Tweet and the idea is very real. Email is the absolute devil. And the only way to not be corrupted is to… run away. So that’s exactly what I’m going to do.
For the rest of this month, I’m not going to respond to any emails. None.
Yes, this sounds sort of like a pampered problem and perhaps somewhat of a dick move — I should be so lucky to get so many emails, right? But the reality remains: email is an absolute nightmare in my life. I dread it in the morning, I dread it more right before I go to bed. It’s always in the back of my mind, lingering.
Following my initial Tweets, Colleen Taylor of GigaOm sent me a link to this old post in Emily Magazine that pretty much sums it up:
When people at parties ask me what I do I think I am just going to start saying that I’m an “emailer.”
It’s both sad and true.
And I’m hardly alone. The tweets I sent out on the topic tonight were met with near unanimous agreement (I’ll paste a some of them below). It seems that most everyone I know wants to quit email. They’re just afraid.
The truth is that I’m afraid too. What happens if I just stop responding? To be honest, I’m not really sure. I think it’s one of those things where if I thought of all of the potential ramifications, I wouldn’t do it. So I’m not going to worry about it. I’m just going to do it.
If nothing else, it will be an interesting experiment. We all talk about our hatred for email — and we have for years — but few people actually quit. Some try half-heartedly. Others are sure a solution is always just right around the corner. But I’m done waiting and making excuses. I’m just going to do it.
Will I have to cheat? I sure hope not. That would be pretty disappointing. But I really don’t think I’ll have to.
My plan is to still check my inbox from time to time just to make sure that there isn’t some emergency. And I’ll forward things along as need be (without typing anything beyond an email address). But for everything else, I’ll simply set up an auto-responder along the lines of “No longer responding to email, if you need me, you’ll figure out a way.” (Kudos to Shervin Pishevar who wanted to test a similar idea earlier this year, but I chickened out.)
That’s the key to all of this. It’s not that I really want to blow people off. It’s that email blows. There has to be a better way. And I think there is! If people really need to get ahold of me, they’ll know how. There are many options. And all of them are better than email in its current state (come on Gmail Lite, come on!).
That doesn’t mean I’ll respond to all of these alternative communications either — I suspect they’ll build up quickly too. But at least it will be a nice big barrier to entry that will help to alleviate my inbox overload. And the great thing about some of the other messaging platforms out there is that many of them follow the “stream” idea. That is: when you send a message, maybe there will be a response, maybe there won’t. With email, a huge problem is that people expect a response every time. With tweets, people don’t.
I don’t know about you, but I’m excited. I have absolutely no idea what will happen next. I’ll respond to some of the emails I currently have in my inbox, but then it’s lights out for the rest of July. Will the world end? Will TechCrunch implode? I suspect not. I think that the ultimate result of this experiment will be much less shocking: fewer emails will be sent.
Update — a month later: Inbox 10,000: Some Thoughts After A Month Away From Email
It's the times that I travel that I really, fully realize that answering email could be a full time job.—
MG Siegler (@parislemon) July 07, 2011
What if I were to channel my inner Peter Gibbons and just stop responding to it (email) entirely?—
MG Siegler (@parislemon) July 07, 2011
I honestly do not think I'd miss much. People would figure out other ways to get stuff to me if absolutely necessary. Or I'd reach out.—
MG Siegler (@parislemon) July 07, 2011
My life would be at least 30% better. Maybe more like 50%.—
MG Siegler (@parislemon) July 07, 2011
@parislemon Why not try it for a month?—
Greg Minton (@GregMinton) July 07, 2011
@parislemon You have…. One… Thousand… Four hundred… and Twenty Three… New Emails. That's what would happen.—
Lichan Cheah (@poojou) July 07, 2011
@parislemon is this a bad time to pitch you a startup? #sarcasm—
Tom Biro (@tombiro) July 07, 2011
hey @parislemon Do it for charity, and for every email that goes unresponded to we'll find a company to donate a sum of bux!! #blamemgsemail—
drew olanoff (@thatdrew) July 07, 2011
@parislemon I've wondered the same about the multitude of mediums I use daily—
Colin Weir (@radiocolin) July 07, 2011
@parislemon Could be life-changing, or life-shattering. There is no middle ground, MG.—
Ben Parr (@benparr) July 07, 2011
@parislemon I stopped responding to email for 30 days once. Life went on.
I responded later with "Your message went to spam! Sorry!"—
Dustin Curtis (@dcurtis) July 07, 2011
@parislemon I think some kind of canned response would be better. I know I get kind of pissed when I take the time to email and no response.—
Keith (@dkr) July 07, 2011
@parislemon That seems like a bit of a dick thing to say, to be honest.—
Joe Keller (@jkeller87) July 07, 2011
@parislemon May not be worth giving up on email full turkey if people just end up calling you instead—
Devindra Hardawar (@Devindra) July 07, 2011
@parislemon unfortunately, the corp world isn't ready for this yet. I couldn't get away with it. Would love to replace it w/ twitter.—
Saurabh Bhasin (@sabhasin) July 07, 2011
@parislemon YES. #hero—
rory berger (@rorycberger) July 07, 2011
@parislemon love it, have for sure thought about doing the same
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renee berry (@renee_berry) July 07, 2011
@parislemon worth a short experiment at least—
Anthony De Rosa (@AntDeRosa) July 07, 2011
@parislemon You will probably find that you get lots and lots of mentions and DM's on here. More than usual at least.—
Zachery Schiller (@ZacherySchiller) July 07, 2011
@parislemon: no, MG — don't do it! (just wanted to be different)—
Mathew Ingram (@mathewi) July 07, 2011
@parislemon more melted chocolate gifts would arrive at TC offices—
Rob Abbott (@Abbott) July 07, 2011
@parislemon i have a simple solution. select all, right click. mark read. boom. go to sleep. cc @mathewi—
Om Malik (@om) July 07, 2011
@parislemon It didn't have my name in it, but in '08 @arrington wrote a post about my "I probably won't respond to you" email away message.—
Chris Sacca (@sacca) July 07, 2011
@parislemon your blowing your chance to marry a Nigerian princess?—
Jeff Bernard (@jbernard703) July 07, 2011
@parislemon try it for a week and see how it goes.Would make a great article.Some jobs have email free day.They say productivity increases—
Michael (@trebbatleahcim) July 07, 2011
its become the cool thing to do to complain about email. youre gonna get messages one way or another cc: @parislemon @davemcclure @sacca—
Travis Beauvais (@MrTravisB) July 07, 2011
@parislemon I feel like a dick saying so, but I've gotten to the point where I treat email as a stream, not a queue. I answer what I can.—
Buzz Andersen (@buzz) July 07, 2011
@buzz @parislemon Ditto. Almost everything is a stream now. The only inboxes that guarantee action/responses: Twitter DMs, SMS, and my face.—
Trammell (@trammell) July 07, 2011
@parislemon best OOO response I got was from a speaker on vacation. It said he'd delete all emails and to email him again when he returned.—
Karen Hartline (@khartline) July 07, 2011
@parislemon best OOO I've heard was Danah Boyd on sabbatical. If it was really important, call her mom & she'd decide. Her mom is a chatter.—
Annie Heckenberger (@anniemal) July 07, 2011
@parislemon DO IT! I'd leave a default message, saying you are conducting an experiment in the name of tech.—
Pat (@pagsf) July 07, 2011
@parislemon clearly you couldn't replace email w twitter cause it took you a dozen + tweets just to get that last point across—
David Prager (@dlprager) July 07, 2011
@buzz @parislemon Yeah, I think it was @twitter who taught me that. Priority inbox – 719 unread. Inbox – 7747. Used to stress me out.—
Matt Silas (@matty8r) July 07, 2011
@parislemon tweet you ? Lol btw did you get my invite? Will u be back on town?—
SN (@SepidehN) July 07, 2011
@parislemon It's hard to do without looking like a jerk, I think. And won't the same problem just come to the next platform? Get an intern.—
Greg Bussmann (@gbussmann) July 07, 2011
@parislemon none of them have the guts to try it themselves. Lord knows I don't!—
Ben Roberts (@ThisBenRoberts) July 07, 2011
@parislemon I wouldn't say I've been MISSING it, Bob.—
Matt Ranney (@mranney) July 07, 2011
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